STEP 1: Understanding that you're not alone and the feeling isn't permanent.
步骤一:明白自己并不孤单而这种情绪不会一直都在。
STEP 2: Start believing in yourself; You have the power to let go of negative beliefs about yourself and the power to create positive beliefs that will empower you rather than hinder you.
步骤二:相信自己。你有能力赶走消极想法,并创造一些积极的信念,让它们赋予你力量,而不是阻碍你前进。
STEP 3: Start changing your life in ways that will reflect a change in your attitude towards life.
步骤三:开始改变自己的生活方式,让这些改变影响你对生活的态度。
STEP 4: Surround yourself with people who exhibit qualities that you want to possess.
步骤四:有的人会展现出你所希望拥有的品质,去和这样的人做朋友。
Visualization.
梦想可视化。
Whenever I feel like giving up, I visualize my dream materializing in front of me.
当我想要放弃的时候,我都会设想自己梦想成真的样子。
I imagine I am standing right there looking at my dream vacation place, or spinning the chair at my favorite company, or eating my favorite mom dish, or driving that one car I've always wanted. I close my eyes and imagine myself doing what I want to do. I make-believe, like a kid.
我会想像自己站在梦想的度假地,或在我最爱的公司里面转着椅子,或在品尝我最爱的妈妈做的菜,或者开着我一直想要的车。我闭上眼睛,想像自己此刻正在做着我想做的事情。我像个孩子一样做梦。
This gives me a much needed motivation straightaway. But then, you've got to work for your goal too! You cannot just go watch a movie after that!
这样想让我立刻有了迫切需要的动力。但是在那之后,你还应该朝着目标前进,而不是去看场电影。
I make a pros and cons list.
我会列一份利弊清单。
I often feel the need to give up. I often feel that it's not worth doing whatever it is that I'm doing, especially if I'm not getting any results.
我经常想要放弃。我经常认为我所做的并不值得继续下去,尤其是在我没有得到任何成果时。
During that time, I make a pros and cons list, the pros usually outweigh the cons, which instantly motivates me.
此时,我就会列出利弊清单,利通常大于弊,这可以激励我继续。
本期重难点单词小结:
hinder | adj. 后面的;vt. 阻碍,打扰 |
permanent | adj. 永久的,持久的;n. 烫发 |
exhibit | v. 陈列,展览,展示;n. 展品,展览 |
possess | vt. 持有,支配 |
reflect | v. 反映,反射,归咎 |
negative | adj. 否定的,负的,消极的;n. 底片,负 |
motivate | vt. 给与动机,激发(兴趣或欲望) |
empower | vt. 授与权力,增加自主权 |
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